So, Jay was thinking we were having a girl, and at the last minute looking at the ultrasound screen I found myself secretly hoping for or thinking we were having a girl. Not for any real reason, I suppose just because the first little girl we had was such a success and so much fun! The ultrasound views were very clear and gender was confirmed by two technicians, so looks like we can keep all Anja's girly clothes!
More importantly, all the big measurements look good. I was pretty nervous for this ultrasound. It's hard not to listen to all the information regarding my "advanced maternal age." We still have to wait for an official reading by the doctor, and we have an appt this Friday for more details. Technicians aren't supposed to give diagnoses, but they unofficially told us things look good. She measures right on for size (I forgot to ask for the calculated weight), and no obvious problems otherwise. She is very active, and we have a few ultrasound pictures I'll put up later. We didn't get a 4D ultrasound like last time, so these will be the grainy-type pictures you're used to seeing, the kind that need labels to tell you what you're looking at.
Stay tuned!
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Monday, January 4, 2010
Ultrasound tomorrow and new place
Our ultrasound is first thing in the morning, which means getting up early, drinking a cruel amount of water for a full bladder, and waiting one hour for the ultrasound.
I have started telling Anja that I have a baby in my belly, and then I point to my belly. Then she lifts up her shirt, points to her belly, and says, "Baby in there." Then I tell her, "No, you just have food in there," at which point she always laughs. I'm not sure why this is funny every time for her, but it always is. Personally, I think it's funnier to have a baby in your tummy.
We have also started to tell her that we will have a baby in the house some day. But then she starts saying, "Mimi? Where's Mimi?" her baby (doll). So for now I think the coming baby will remain part of a funny joke about which of us has a baby in her tummy and which of us has food.
One of our Christmas presents this year was a family pass to the Bay Area Discovery Museum. Anja loves it - we've already been twice! It's right on the bay near the base of the Golden Gate Bridge and has a lot of great activities, both indoor and out. I think Anja's favorite part is this toddler room with waterbed-like ponds for jumping on and animal panels on the walls that make noise when you push them. She is absolutely beside herself about the noise the frogs make:
All the kids love this outdoor running river at kid height.
And of course, anything that makes noise:
I'm excited that we can go here for free all year whenever we want, and that the weather will be nice enough. I do regret a little that Anja doesn't get to see snow right now, but the ability to play outside virtually every day in sun and nice weather more than makes up for it to me. We're about three hours drive from good snow (as in, chains on your tires required and they measure it in feet, not inches), but haven't been yet. Hopefully we'll get that way at least a few times this winter for Anja. I'm rapidly becoming less mobile, and so won't be doing any skiing or sledding this year myself.
In other news, we are moving next week to a new place. This will be a much nicer move than the last one, since it's just across town and not the entire country. We are SO excited for our new place. It's right next to an elementary school with playground equipment and a big open field for soccer or frisbee or whatever you want. Across the street from that is a really nice park with big twisty slides, climbing walls, swings, etc. The park has some really nice mature redwood trees, plus a couple of tennis courts. Of course, right next to that park is a dog park. AND, in the summer they show outdoor movies in the park for a donation of a few $$! The neighborhood itself is really nice and great for walking. The house is one mile from downtown and .7 miles from our favorite coffeeshop. I can't wait to be able to walk to town again, like we could in Lansing. I'm really looking forward to living in a neighborhood again.
We will also now be living on the "Point Reyes" side of town, which means it will take even less time now to head to the coast, or the redwoods, or just out for a bike ride through the vineyards and farms. We will be literally a 30 second drive from the edge of town!
This place is also bigger than our apartment. It has three bedrooms, two full baths, a giant living room with a fireplace and a giant kitchen. Also a small storage shed/workroom and a big fenced yard out back with big shade trees. We found this place for the same price we were paying for our apartment, which is great since we really couldn't afford much more. I think it would have been a little more if not for its vintage (aka outdated) appearance inside. But the avocado green countertops are in great condition, as well as the peach-colored tub. And hey, our very own orange tree in the front yard, loaded with oranges right now! I'll have some pictures of the new place in a few weeks.
I have started telling Anja that I have a baby in my belly, and then I point to my belly. Then she lifts up her shirt, points to her belly, and says, "Baby in there." Then I tell her, "No, you just have food in there," at which point she always laughs. I'm not sure why this is funny every time for her, but it always is. Personally, I think it's funnier to have a baby in your tummy.
We have also started to tell her that we will have a baby in the house some day. But then she starts saying, "Mimi? Where's Mimi?" her baby (doll). So for now I think the coming baby will remain part of a funny joke about which of us has a baby in her tummy and which of us has food.
One of our Christmas presents this year was a family pass to the Bay Area Discovery Museum. Anja loves it - we've already been twice! It's right on the bay near the base of the Golden Gate Bridge and has a lot of great activities, both indoor and out. I think Anja's favorite part is this toddler room with waterbed-like ponds for jumping on and animal panels on the walls that make noise when you push them. She is absolutely beside herself about the noise the frogs make:
All the kids love this outdoor running river at kid height.
And of course, anything that makes noise:
I'm excited that we can go here for free all year whenever we want, and that the weather will be nice enough. I do regret a little that Anja doesn't get to see snow right now, but the ability to play outside virtually every day in sun and nice weather more than makes up for it to me. We're about three hours drive from good snow (as in, chains on your tires required and they measure it in feet, not inches), but haven't been yet. Hopefully we'll get that way at least a few times this winter for Anja. I'm rapidly becoming less mobile, and so won't be doing any skiing or sledding this year myself.
In other news, we are moving next week to a new place. This will be a much nicer move than the last one, since it's just across town and not the entire country. We are SO excited for our new place. It's right next to an elementary school with playground equipment and a big open field for soccer or frisbee or whatever you want. Across the street from that is a really nice park with big twisty slides, climbing walls, swings, etc. The park has some really nice mature redwood trees, plus a couple of tennis courts. Of course, right next to that park is a dog park. AND, in the summer they show outdoor movies in the park for a donation of a few $$! The neighborhood itself is really nice and great for walking. The house is one mile from downtown and .7 miles from our favorite coffeeshop. I can't wait to be able to walk to town again, like we could in Lansing. I'm really looking forward to living in a neighborhood again.
We will also now be living on the "Point Reyes" side of town, which means it will take even less time now to head to the coast, or the redwoods, or just out for a bike ride through the vineyards and farms. We will be literally a 30 second drive from the edge of town!
This place is also bigger than our apartment. It has three bedrooms, two full baths, a giant living room with a fireplace and a giant kitchen. Also a small storage shed/workroom and a big fenced yard out back with big shade trees. We found this place for the same price we were paying for our apartment, which is great since we really couldn't afford much more. I think it would have been a little more if not for its vintage (aka outdated) appearance inside. But the avocado green countertops are in great condition, as well as the peach-colored tub. And hey, our very own orange tree in the front yard, loaded with oranges right now! I'll have some pictures of the new place in a few weeks.
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Tantrums
It's only 7:45am and so far today we've had pretty impressive tantrums about:
1. Not being allowed to wear Diego underwear
2. Not being allowed to watch TV
3. Not being able to put a bite of apple back onto the apple it came from
Also, be sure to check out Laura's blog (link at right), where she updates what vegetable or fruit my baby is each week. This week we're an avocado!
And stay tuned for next week when we have our 20 week ultrasound and hopefully find out the sex and some other interesting info. So far I've gained 5 or 6lbs, which is pretty much right on track for this stage. That isn't much weight, but I look huge right now, more like I did last time at 5 or 6 months. I'll put up a belly picture soon.
1. Not being allowed to wear Diego underwear
2. Not being allowed to watch TV
3. Not being able to put a bite of apple back onto the apple it came from
Also, be sure to check out Laura's blog (link at right), where she updates what vegetable or fruit my baby is each week. This week we're an avocado!
And stay tuned for next week when we have our 20 week ultrasound and hopefully find out the sex and some other interesting info. So far I've gained 5 or 6lbs, which is pretty much right on track for this stage. That isn't much weight, but I look huge right now, more like I did last time at 5 or 6 months. I'll put up a belly picture soon.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Thanksgiving, Christmas and 17 weeks along
It's been difficult to keep up with posting lately. First I felt sick for almost three months due to the pregnancy, and then we were busy with both Jay traveling for work and then all of us traveling or hosting travelers for three weeks straight. Meanwhile all of this time I was and am still completely EXHAUSTED. Much more fatigued than last pregnancy. Imagine always feeling like like you've only had two hours of sleep for months and months. And yet you still have to go to work, take care of a toddler, and function normally. I've got a long five months still to go. Now we're fully in the midst of the "terrible two's", which we're told will start to improve when Anja turns four or so. Even if you don't think the two's are terrible, they are incredibly consuming and take up all of our time. Even this post is being typed a few words at a time while keeping Anja from hitting the computer with hard toys. And now she's running around the house like a crazy person on her tiptoes laughing hysterically.
Anja has advanced incredibly in last couple of months. She now has full conversations with us and asks a lot of questions about everything. She recently learned the word, "why", which is pretty fun. Whatever answer we give is always followed by another why, and another. As usual she is really active and needs constant entertainment. In addition, we are now experiencing the emotional turmoil typical for this age. The first few mini tantrums were just amusing, but now we can expect a meltdown at any time for really any reason. It is very challenging and completely different than the predictability we've had for the last year. Meltdowns are caused by not being able to watch TV, having twisted socks, not being picked up, being picked up, dropping a toy, not having food yet at a restaurant, not liking the food you have, Blue being too close to a toy or food, having a piece of fuzz stuck to your finger, etc.
This picture and the two above are from the Oregon coast. For Thanksgiving we visited my sister and her husband in Corvallis. It was beautiful, and we even had good weather on the day we drove to the coast. These are some pictures from a place called Seal Rock. The tidepooling there was really good and we did see a few seals.
Here are Jay and Anja on some of the rocks exposed at low tide.
And here are the four Spaulding girls at a spot a little further up the road, I forget what town this was.
The next week my sister Heather came to visit and stayed for a couple of weeks. She just finished her degree and is currently job-free (aka free to travel). Here's a photo of Jay, Anja and Heather on a beach at Point Reyes during her visit. We had a good visit there and got to see some really impressive Tule Elk, a couple different species of deer, elephant seals, and numerous water birds.
It's also the beginning of the salmon spawning season here, which we tried to go see, but no luck. We did find some really pretty rivers nearby, though.
And then we got a Christmas tree and started putting wrapped presents under it. At first Anja thought the wrapped presents *were* the toys. She carried them around and arranged them and didn't want to put them back.
And packages for her kept showing up in the mail with bubble wrap, which she hadn't seen before.
Anja really likes to have "jobs" to do. She especially likes feeding Blue. Afterward she even reminded me to add Blue's joint medication to her food, which I had forgotten.
She also really likes singing, but she doesn't know all the words to any songs by herself yet. She loves the rubber ducky song from Sesame Street:
Here's Anja on her new bouncy toy, Rody, that she got for Christmas.
Anja loves all her new toys. Here she is "eating" a wooden strawberry...
... and playing with her wooden hammer.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Halloween and pretend play
First, the big news that some of you already know about, Anja is going to be a big sister next June! Here's an 8 week ultrasound of baby #2 (it's pretty hard to decipher, but the x's are at the head and bum). So far things are going alright. I feel yucky most of the time these days, and the fatigue is much worse than last time, but baby is developing well. And as of today we're 10 weeks along, which is 1/4 of the way there! I'll continue to update on progress over time.
I'm a few weeks behind in updates, but we did take Anja trick or treating. I made an adorable costume by buying a brown jumpsuit and sewing a few pieces of fur on it. Unfortunately I didn't check the fit first. I could barely get in on her! But after about a week of trying it on for short periods, she finally decided it was fun to wear, and not just a restrictive furry bodysuit. Sometimes she would forget her costume was a dog and she'd call it a monkey.
Most of the shops in downtown Petaluma were open for the kids for Halloween, so that's where we went. At first she was pretty confused and we had to carry her to each candy spot and hold her bag open for her. After a few stops, she figured it out, but she was very serious about the process. She marched straight into each store with her bag open and waited for her candy. Then she walked straight out of the store and opened her bag to see what they gave her. No smiles and no "trick or treat." Oh, and she didn't understand about waiting in lines, either. She tried to walk around all the taller kids and weave her way straight toward the candy bowl.
We've also had a few other recent trips, one to a wine tasting just down the road when Jay's friend Pete was visiting, and we also went to the beach, where Anja is really beginning to have some fun. She likes to collect small rocks and shells, and hide her toys in the sand, and dig. She also really likes the seagulls and has started to walk just a short distance into the water. We've been a couple of times now to this great beach on Tomales Bay, where the water is shallow and there aren't any waves, so it's a great place to bring kids.
This past weekend we went to the Oakland Zoo. Anja really loved it, and we stayed for 3.5 hours, which is a long time for anything to hold her interest! Here she is just before going into the zoo, wearing her favorite hat with soccer balls on it. She loves soccer balls, even though the only soccer ball we have here is a half-deflated ball that belongs to Blue.
We brought the stroller, but Anja really wanted to run around instead. And I mean run. She really has picked up speed recently. She has a pretty interesting technique, with arms and legs everywhere, but it works for her. Here she is watching the giraffes.
She was also very impressed with the petting zoo and their goats. Actually, she was just mildly amused by the goats until she found out that there were brushes for the kids to use. Here she is, so happy while brushing her goat.
Throughout the zoo were these colorful animals for the kids to climb on. Equally as impressive as the real animals to a 1.5 year old.
Anja really loves to play pretend games. It's so fun to watch, and to make up fun games with her. She loves dressing up, and of course doing everything she sees us do. She's even been pretty good with the potty lately. She uses it at home and has started using it at daycare now too. She helps me fold laundry, which goes about as well as you can imagine it would. Yesterday I laid down on the floor and said, "I wish I had a pillow." She ran into the bedroom, pulled the blankets back and brought back a pillow. Jay let her play with this wrench so she decided to fix her car.
And wow does she like playdoh. She will play with it for a full hour. That is about 50-55 minutes longer than anything else! I am amazed at how good she is at pretending a lump of playdoh is whatever you tell her it is. She told me to make an Ernie and an Elmo, and she's completely happy with the these weird squished pac-man shapes I made instead. And she pretends they are eating snakes and says, "yuck, yuck, yuck."
I'm a few weeks behind in updates, but we did take Anja trick or treating. I made an adorable costume by buying a brown jumpsuit and sewing a few pieces of fur on it. Unfortunately I didn't check the fit first. I could barely get in on her! But after about a week of trying it on for short periods, she finally decided it was fun to wear, and not just a restrictive furry bodysuit. Sometimes she would forget her costume was a dog and she'd call it a monkey.
Most of the shops in downtown Petaluma were open for the kids for Halloween, so that's where we went. At first she was pretty confused and we had to carry her to each candy spot and hold her bag open for her. After a few stops, she figured it out, but she was very serious about the process. She marched straight into each store with her bag open and waited for her candy. Then she walked straight out of the store and opened her bag to see what they gave her. No smiles and no "trick or treat." Oh, and she didn't understand about waiting in lines, either. She tried to walk around all the taller kids and weave her way straight toward the candy bowl.
We've also had a few other recent trips, one to a wine tasting just down the road when Jay's friend Pete was visiting, and we also went to the beach, where Anja is really beginning to have some fun. She likes to collect small rocks and shells, and hide her toys in the sand, and dig. She also really likes the seagulls and has started to walk just a short distance into the water. We've been a couple of times now to this great beach on Tomales Bay, where the water is shallow and there aren't any waves, so it's a great place to bring kids.
This past weekend we went to the Oakland Zoo. Anja really loved it, and we stayed for 3.5 hours, which is a long time for anything to hold her interest! Here she is just before going into the zoo, wearing her favorite hat with soccer balls on it. She loves soccer balls, even though the only soccer ball we have here is a half-deflated ball that belongs to Blue.
We brought the stroller, but Anja really wanted to run around instead. And I mean run. She really has picked up speed recently. She has a pretty interesting technique, with arms and legs everywhere, but it works for her. Here she is watching the giraffes.
She was also very impressed with the petting zoo and their goats. Actually, she was just mildly amused by the goats until she found out that there were brushes for the kids to use. Here she is, so happy while brushing her goat.
Throughout the zoo were these colorful animals for the kids to climb on. Equally as impressive as the real animals to a 1.5 year old.
Anja really loves to play pretend games. It's so fun to watch, and to make up fun games with her. She loves dressing up, and of course doing everything she sees us do. She's even been pretty good with the potty lately. She uses it at home and has started using it at daycare now too. She helps me fold laundry, which goes about as well as you can imagine it would. Yesterday I laid down on the floor and said, "I wish I had a pillow." She ran into the bedroom, pulled the blankets back and brought back a pillow. Jay let her play with this wrench so she decided to fix her car.
And wow does she like playdoh. She will play with it for a full hour. That is about 50-55 minutes longer than anything else! I am amazed at how good she is at pretending a lump of playdoh is whatever you tell her it is. She told me to make an Ernie and an Elmo, and she's completely happy with the these weird squished pac-man shapes I made instead. And she pretends they are eating snakes and says, "yuck, yuck, yuck."
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Eyebrows and hugs
This was supposed to be a mustache...
Anja hugs everything she likes. Hugging means putting it under your chin and rocking back and forth. She hugs her toys, her food, pictures. And then she gives it to you to hug.
Anja hugs everything she likes. Hugging means putting it under your chin and rocking back and forth. She hugs her toys, her food, pictures. And then she gives it to you to hug.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Granona Beas!
We have a lot of conversations now. Mainly Anja tells us what she wants, which is actually pretty great. Now she tells us when she wants water or milk or food.
She babbles nonstop about all of her toys. "Elmo? Big Bird? Dollhouse? Big Teddy! Hugs, Big Teddy. Daddy hugs?"
Recent conversations around the house:
(While hiding under the high chair) "Daddy!? I see you! I see you Daddy! I see you Blue. Blue!"
(While reading Goodnight Moon) "Kitty. Bunny. Moon." (Then casually, as Blue walks by:) "Hi Blue." (and then back to the book) "Kitty. Shoes. Brush."
"Look at me!"
"Playground! Playground! Playground! Playground!"
"No Anja, not now, maybe later."
"Noooooo! Playground! Playground! Playground!"
"Anja, are you thirsty?"
"Anja water! Anja milk! Anja juice! Anja milk, water!"
She also says please after most things she asks for, which is incredibly cute:
"Granona bease!" (Granola please)
"Akee seem bease" (Ice cream please)
(While putting a puzzle piece down her shirt) "Anja, shirt. Daddy, shirt?"
"No, Daddy doesn't want a puzzle piece in his shirt."
"Blue, shirt"
"No, Blue doesn't want a puzzle piece in her shirt."
She also asks to use the potty. A recent typical scenario:
"Mommy, potty."
"Do you want to use the potty?"
"Nah" (yes)
"Okay"
Diaper is removed. Above child pees immediately on carpet, then runs to living room and pees on her chair, then pees in the potty, and again on the carpet.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
