Wednesday, September 29, 2010

sleep

I'll never understand why kids fight sleep so much:

Right after that video was taken I put Anja in bed for a nap and she fought it the whole way, crying about wanting another piece of toast (after eating lunch for about 45 minutes and passing out in her high chair).

I tried again to get a few pictures of both girls. Anja was excited, and it was her idea to hold hands. She is much more interested in her little sister than I thought she would be, which is fun.
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Maija continues to get stronger. To me, this is the really fun time. Those early months are great in many ways, but they are just so hard too. Now we have feeding and sleeping figured out and we have a pretty good rhythm as a family of four. Maija rolled over a few more times (both ways) and is scooting around on her back to look at toys and books. She is getting better at grabbing things, but still just mashes them into her face.

Maija is just so happy. She will always smile if you talk to her. And not just a little grin, more like this:
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Anja's comments:

Jay: (pretending not to know Anja is hiding under the couch) What's this under here? Hey look, it's Anja!
Anja: Daddy, leave me alone. I'm working!
Me: Do you have some work to do Anja?
Anja: Yeah, in my office. In my couch office!

Me: Anja, Daddy's home.
Anja: Daddy??!! Yay! I'm so HAPPY! Oh I have to go potty Daddy Daddy I have to gooo poooottteeeeee!!! (runs to door to greet him)

Anja: I want toast with butter! Butter that I can see! Not pretend butter!
(This was a response to our recent mean trick of putting butter on her toast and allowing it to melt so she couldn't see it. Also she means "white butter" and not peanut butter!)

Monday, September 27, 2010

Advances

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Anja was pretty excited about getting to "hold" Maija for this picture.

Maija rolled over for the the first time this week, caught on video as seen below (back to front). She rolls up on her side to reach toys now and this time she kept going. Then today she rolled over the other way (front to back), so she's moving right along.

Also in the past week she has suddenly decided she likes spending time on the floor on her back and belly and is getting a lot stronger. She is beginning to push herself along in a belly crawl, and to scoot around the floor on her back. It seems so early to be doing that, but then I can't believe she's already three months old either.
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She is making a lot of noises lately. She is just such a happy baby.






Sunday, September 19, 2010

Big girl bed for the big sister

Look, pictures with me! The problem with always wanting to take pictures is of course, that I am never in them. Jay took these pictures in some gardens in Sonoma.

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Anja took her first nap in a big girl bed today, and was really excited about it. Right now she is asleep for her first night in it. We made a big production of talking about the bed over the last few weeks, and then finally buying it and letting her pick out her own sheet set.
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She can't wait to have Maija sleep in her room with her now, although I don't think I'm ready for that yet. I think they would do fine since they're both great sleepers, but I love the convenience of having Maija right next to my bed for the nighttime feeding. I barely have to get up to feed her, and I'm not ready to give up that luxury yet.
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Anja has really adapted well to having Maija around. She loves being a big sister, and doesn't show any overt signs of jealousy anymore. When Maija cries, Anja tells me I need to go get her, and she shares her toys with her and tries to make her smile.
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Before Maija was born, when Anja played pretend games she was usually the "baby." She was the baby lion, or baby dinosaur, etc. Now she is the big sister dinosaur and Maija is the baby dinosaur.
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There she goes!
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Anja comments:

(Jay bounces a rubber ball on Anja)
Anja: Daddy, don't bounce that ball on me. Don't bounce that ball on Mommy's kid!

Jay: Did you have a good nap?
Anja: Yeah. Mommy came and got me when I was waking up!
Jay: That was pretty nice. You sure have a nice Mommy. She is nice. And pretty. And smart.... And tasty.
Anja: Tas-tee!?? Mommy is not tasty! You can not taste her!
Jay: I was just making a funny joke about Mommy, because she feeds milk to Maija.
(Anja is not impressed)

Anja: Maija is a cupcake!
Me: Mmmm, yummy. Num num num.
Anja: No Mommy! Don't eat her! She's yucky. And she's a baby!

Anja: Mommy, do you remember that poop is yucky?

(upon being given two pieces of tofu, a large and a small one)
Anja: Where's the Mommy and the Baby tofu?
Me: Right there. There is the mommy and there is the baby.
Anja: No! This one (the little one) is the Big Sister tofu and this one (the big one) is the Daddy tofu! Where is the Mommy and Baby tofu???

(Maija cries)
Anja: Mommy, Maija's hungry for you!




Thursday, September 9, 2010

Anja's comments

Anja had some comments she wanted posted for the week as well. Lately she simply will not stop talking. Sometimes she runs out of things to say that make sense but keeps talking anyway.


Me: Sigh
Anja: What was that? What was that noise??
Me: I just sighed. Sometimes I do that when I have a lot of work to do.
Anja: Ohhh. Sigh.
Me: Do you have a lot of work to do?
Anja: Yeeaaahhhh. Like yoga. Like Daddy does yoga. And reaches waaay up high. Like a robot! On Dora! (stretches her arms way up high)

Anja: Mommy! What is in that bag?
Me: Cheese.
Anja: Mooooooommmmmeeeeee......
Me: Yes?
Anja: What is that?
Me: What is what?
Anja: In. That. Bag. What is in that bag?
Me: Cheese.
Anja: What is it?
Me: Cheese.
Anja: Mommy! What's that over there? In that bag?!
Me: Still cheese.
Anja: Daddy!
Jay: Yes, hon.
Anja: What did Mommy say?
Jay: Mommy said there is cheese in that bag.
Anja: Cheeeese?
Jay: Yes.
Anja: What is cheeeeese? That is not a WORD! (laughs at her own joke)


Wednesday, September 8, 2010

sticks and s'mores

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First, the update on Maija's first day with a bottle exclusively: Jay was able to get Maija to drink a little from a bottle before I got home on my first day back at work. She still isn't thrilled about it, but she will eventually drink a little very slowly if you work with her for a while. We also discovered that my breast milk has an abundance of an enzyme called lipase, which breaks down milk fat and makes it smell and taste sour, although it is still safe to drink. Usually it takes a while for this to happen, but it happens really quickly if you have too much of the enzyme. This enzyme works even when the milk is frozen, so the milk we were thawing and trying to feed to Maija for the past month tasted really bad to her. No wonder she hated the bottle. The enzyme is neutralized by scalding the milk before freezing, so now we do that and the milk is fine. Hopefully this means more bottle success in the future.

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In much more interesting news, we went for a short camping trip this past weekend when Jay had to go to a meeting near Yosemite. The picture above is taken from right near our campsite, which was in a valley surrounded by mountains . It's about a 5.5hr drive from Petaluma. We drove a few hours the first night and stayed in Tahoe, then continued on to the eastern side of the Sierras in the morning. We found traveling with Anja generally pretty easy before Maija was around, but the level of complexity of travel now is definitely much higher.

I was skeptical when Jay said we could/should bring her, but when we were unable to find a dogsitter for our camping weekend we brought the dog along too with the two kids in our small hatchback. And we still brought camping gear, kid gear, and two tents.
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We realized as we were driving out of Petaluma that were on our first trip in which were outnumbered by our dependents.

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The area was absolutely beautiful. The campground was rustic, with about half the sites right on this cold river. People were pulling trout of it all day and we regretted leaving our fishing poles at home. It was at about 5000' elevation I think.

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Both kids took naps in their tents right away, which was unfortunately not an indication of how well they would sleep at night. Anja tossed and turned most of the night, both nights, and Maija wanted to nurse all night. The first night I had to change four poopy diapers before morning and the second night Maija nursed every single hour until sunrise.

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Otherwise, Maija was pretty easygoing about the trip, as expected, and Anja's experience was dependent mainly on how well we worked around her sleep schedule each day. She was not a fan of any of the extended trips in the car.

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But Anja really had a great time. She liked eating snacks at the picnic table, and running around with one of her many magic wands she found.

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Maija is just happy if you're carrying her.

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Magic wand!

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Here's a little spot at the campground at the river. Anja didn't want to walk very far, but she liked exploring around the river and the bushes nearby.

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S'mores were definitely her favorite part of the trip.

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I'm cute.

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On our way back, we spent the whole day driving through the northern part of Yosemite. For almost every minute of the drive there was at least one baby or dog whining or crying and needing a diaper change, bathroom break, snack or attention. And if two of them were quiet, the third would whine or cry and get the others worked up again. We had to stop a lot, and I spent quite a lot of time feeding Maija.

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A popular place for rock climbers, you can see the tiny dots of the climbers on the rock face here. We stopped and watched for a little bit, and had a conversation with Anja about how she can do that if she wants to when she's older. She was really upset that she couldn't do it right now.

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Most of the drive looked like this, although it was tough to enjoy it fully with various whining and crying noises much of the time.

It was a great trip, but we did forget one thing on the list.
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