Monday, October 25, 2010

Stats and dragons

Anja smiled for this picture, but then had to check to make sure that she was really smiling:
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Maija had her four-month checkup and vaccinations. She is doing great, and is at 95th percentile for height and 42nd percentile for weight - tall and thin just like her sister. She still eats ALL the time, giving me little more than 1.5 to 2 hours between feedings during the day.

Her daytime naps have been intermittent lately, and even nighttime sleeping lately hasn't been as great. She goes to bed pretty reliably at 9pm, but then sleeps anywhere from 3 to 8 hours before needing to eat again. Often she eats for hours, drifting off then waking up to eat again and refusing to be put back in her crib. Then sometime around 5am she usually starts making funny cooing noises and blowing bubbles, which is incredibly cute but also means that my night of sleep is done.
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We've been pretty tired around here lately. Anja was sick last week, fighting a fever for several days. Then Maija had her vaccinations which made her sad for a couple of days too. Now Jay is sick with what Anja had. And we're also getting the first rains of the season, so it's been dreary - we just had four inches over the weekend!

Anja is good at making Maija laugh. And she loves to hold her hand. Before bedtime she makes sure to give Maija a hug and a kiss. Although tonight she also said goodnight to the crickets, and I don't think she loves them.


Anja's Halloween costume is finished. This is the first year she's into it, so it's been really fun putting it together. Maija unfortunately will be wearing Anja's old flower costume, but I don't think she will mind. Anja remembers about trick or treating from last year and keeps talking about how she will say "trick or treat" and people will give her candy!!!

Potty training is finally moving forward again, from the apparent stalemate we had been in for several months (consisting of Anja wearing underwear all the time, but with many minor accidents every day). Now Anja goes entirely by herself sometimes, including getting up and down off the stool, which is really helpful. Although sometimes she comes out of the bathroom with no pants or underwear on afterward.

Our special weekend movie this week was How to Train Your Dragon, which was a pretty good movie for Anja. There are only a handful of kids movies that are well made and interesting for adults, but also not too scary for little kids. So now she pretends to be a dragon in addition to a dinosaur. Dinosaurs are still her main focus right now, though. And she can name them: "Mommy, this is a brachiosaurus, not a brontosaurus, a BRACHiosaurus!" She also knows ankylosaurus, t-rex, iguanodon and spinosaurus and I'm sure some others that she could tell you about.

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Conversations:
Me: Anja, I'm really proud of what a great big sister you are. You must really like being a big sister.
Anja: I pooped in my underwear once.
Me: Oh, well that's okay. Anyway, you are really helpful taking care of Maija and getting her toys, and making her smile.
Anja: Look, a cupcake! (shows me her apple piece where she inserted the apple stem like a candle)

Anja : (while looking at a picture on the computer of a friend's new baby who is wearing one sock) But who is that guy?!!
Me: That's Jasper.
Anja: He's like our baby. Except he has a sock there. And no sock there!
Me: So he's not like our baby?
Anja: No. But where is his sock? Is it lost?

Anja: Who is that guy?
Me: That's Jasper. That is Toby's brother. When you have a baby in the house who is a boy, that's your brother, and if the baby is a girl, that's your sister.
Anja: Where's MY brother?

Me: You have to put some pants on to go play in the sandbox.
Anja: Aw, man!
Me: Okay, fine, go outside in your underwear. (Anja runs out the door)

Anja: This raspberry has something on it!
Me: Those are little hairs, they are part of the raspberry.
Anja: It has little hairs? Like me! I have little hairs!

Jay: Up in the air, it's Super Maija!
Anja: Maija is a Super Drooler!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Big Sister and updates

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Anja really likes being a big sister. Sometimes she's a little too excited:
Me: Anja, don't put that pacifier in Maija's mouth, she might not like it.
Anja: But she likes it! See?
Me: Yes, that's really nice of you, but you should let her put it in her mouth by herself if she wants to.
Anja: (dejected) Oookayyy.
20 seconds later:
Me: That's really nice of you to help Maija, but you shouldn't put things in her mouth.
Anja: She likes it.
Me: I know, but please don't put anything in the baby's mouth.
10 seconds later:
Me: Anja? Don't put anything in Maija's mouth.
Anja: Look Mommy, she likes it!

Here is Anja playing with Maija by herself:
Some updates about recent events:
-Maija is trying to crawl: She can get her bum up in the air or her head up in the air, but never at the same time.
-Maija rolls up on her side to grab toys and is pretty good with her hands now.
-Anja's language skills are incredible. You have to be careful how you talk around her because she will correct your pronunciation and grammar.
-Maija got her next round of vaccinations without too much trouble.
-We went to the local pumpkin patch where Anja still likes the bounce house more than anything else.
-We started a ten gallon aquarium bug house for Anja. So far we only have a spider, a crane fly, and a bunch of pill bugs.
-We put a ban on any tv for Anja during the week, and after two weeks we've seen a big improvement in behavior. Now the weekends are special "movie days" that we look forward to.
-Anja has a new friend, Ian, a 4 year who lives a couple of houses down. He doesn't usually play with yucky girls, but he's really great with her.
-Anja is going to be Goldbug for halloween (he's the little yellow bug hiding on every page of Richard Scarry's "Car and Trucks and Things that Go". It is going to be awesome. If I have enough energy, I will also make a Lowly the Worm costume for Maija, but I'm not making any promises.
-Anja loves her big girl bed. She bangs into the walls and thrashes around when sleeping but has not yet fallen out.
-I am finding that working from home is a mixed blessing, but overall really good for us as a family. It is very difficult to get anything done at home so I find that on the days I do go in, I'm very stressed about trying to get everything done in time. I am looking forward to going back to work full time in January, although I wish it didn't mean having to put Maija in daycare.
-Maija is a very relaxed kid and generally pretty easy to take care of. She travels pretty well, except that she needs to eat really frequently (I only get about 1.5hrs between feedings still).
-Anja eats the skins of grapes again, instead of peeling them
-Anja is more likely to eat food if in the shape of a face
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-Maija's new hair is coming in blonde.
-Anja's new hair is coming in brown.
-Maija smiles when Anja smiles at her but cries if Anja makes a scary face.

And as always, Anja's comments:

Anja: Maija can say lots of words.
Me: Pretty soon she will. She can't really say any words yet.
Anja: Maija can say a couple of words.
Me: Oh yeah? What words can Maija say?
Anja: Aye-ahhh!

Anja: (looking at a picture of a gecko in a book). A gecko in their house! That's silly!
Me: Some people have geckos in their house to eat their bugs. They crawl around on the walls and eat bugs and then they don't have any bugs in their house. Wouldn't that be fun to have a gecko in the house?
Anja: Then we would be sad.
Me: Because we wouldn't have any bugs in the house?
Anja: Yeah.

Me: When I was little like you, I had a Winnie the Pooh doll
Anja: When I was little like you, I growed up. And got big!

Me: That was a loud car.
Anja (thinking I said "That was a lot of car"): No Mommy, not "lot of car", say "lot of CARS!" not "lot of car."


Sunday, October 3, 2010

Habbing the gorning

Anja tells a nonsense story with made-up words:


And then creatively retires to her couch office:

Also she would like you to know that her spider is cute and awesome.

Selected quotes:

Anja: What is Blue digging?
Me: She is digging some holes in the yard, where an animal lives. What do you think lives there?
Anja: Maybe... a baby tiger! Or maybe a groundhog. Or a mole. Or a porcupine! Porcupines live down there in the ground.
(then again, later:)
Anja: Maybe a hedgehog! They stick their heads out of the ground!

Anja: What day is today?
Me: Today is Thursday.
Anja: Why can we NOT watch a movie on Thursdays?!!!
Me: Well, Thursdays are not movie days. But tomorrow is Friday, and Fridays are movie days. We can watch a movie tomorrow.
Anja: Ohhhh...

Anja: (holding a crown) This is my crown. I can wear it. On my head. I'm a king.
Me: You're a king?
Anja: Yeah, I'm a king... a king... I'm a kinkajou! I'm a kinkajou and I can jump like this! (jumps around the room). I can jump up high in a tree and grab my crown.